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23 February 2014 @ 09:52 pm
Real or Not Real? Confused About a Guy...  
After a fast-paced audition process and an extremely brutal twist during Rush Week (a.k.a. semifinal from hell), American Idol XIII has finally given us our new Top 13. While there are a couple names I'm not too fond of, I still find this group enjoyable, especially compared to last year's disaster. Gonna be rooting for Sam Woolf (who I have been supporting for a year on Youtube before he decided to audition for the show), jazz-influenced artist Alex Preston, my fellow Halien Emily Piriz and the uniquely refreshing Majesty Rose. I'd add rocker Caleb to the list as well, 'cause he's super fun! Also, he's got everything I wanted in a male finalist in a very long time. The dude just rocks ;)

Now here's something that I've been meaning to share with my LJ friends. Romance doesn't usually seem to be on the menu as far as my life is concerned. But I do wonder if this could be the beginning of something wonderful for me AND I need your help/input/advice :)

There's this brown-haired guy from NYC in his late 20s who I've been friends with on Twitter for a year. A mutual friend from the Idol fandom introduced us 'cause she knew we'd get along well. Turns out this guy and I really do have a lot in common, and even if we have a light argument, it never turns into a big fight - we would always find a way to understand and respect each other's opinion. Basically, we've been talking every single day about anything and everything since we met (we've also flirted for a bit). By the way, he's also a Cancer and only child like me, shares the same faith and is an aspiring writer. Plus he supports my music and has checked out my videos and works.

All this time, we've been tweeting & DMing each other about our favorite things from TV shows to pop culture icons and, of course, Idol. We mainly have the same Idol friends on Twitter. But a couple months back, he got personal with me. He's a very shy person in real life so he only shares deep convos with a couple friends he really feels comfortable with. Recently, he's been trusting me with his darkest secrets 'cause he said he trusts me the most. Also, he has slipped in a number of complimentary DMs that, when added up, seem like little hints that he's interested in me. But I'm not sure if they mean anything. So can anyone help this girl out? LOL These are some of the things he has told me:

  • "You shouldn't have to diet to please a guy. I like you for who you are :)" - in response to my DM that I won't ever diet to make a guy happy like some friends would

  • "You're my kinda girl. Intelligent, pretty, funny, and kind hearted."

  • "I'll be thinking of you"

  • "I'm glad you refuse to let guys judge you based on your appearance. You happen to be very pretty though :)"

  • "You definitely have gorgeous looks, but I like you for who you are"

  • "I really want to meet you when you come back to the States. I find many girls to be shallow and vapid, glad you're different."

  • "I'd def. talk to you in real life. I feel comfortable that we get along really well. We'd have a lot to talk about :)" - I told him I hope he'd talk to me in real life, even though he said he's very shy around people, and that was his answer to me.

Well, I talked about this with the friend who first introduced us. Being the romantic that she is, she said there's a possibility he might be into me. She really thinks we have a connection that's real, and another mutual friend who has witnessed our tweets also gave me the same opinion.

Around last week, one of them directly messaged the guy on FB: "Do you think you and Jules will be more than friends when she returns to the States? The best relationships come out of friendships. Either way, I'm glad to have introduced you both. I just want to see my friends happy."

This was his answer: "Jules and I do have a good friendship. I'd be open to a relationship with Jules. Anything is possible :)"

So what do you think? Is there a *chance* this guy could be right for me? Thanks in advance for your comments. <3

NB. I've never paid much attention to him when we first met, but now I notice he kinda fits the criteria I want in a dream guy... Dark brown hair, Italian heritage, a New York gentleman, deep thinker, sensitive, romantic, creative, a kind soul, loves his parents.
Current Mood: hopefulhopeful
Elizabethdarlingdivine on February 23rd, 2014 06:49 pm (UTC)
It definitely sounds like he's genuinely interested in a relationship. Hope it all works out for the best between you two! :)
Jules: emma watson lucyjazzontherocks on February 24th, 2014 01:57 am (UTC)
Cool. I shall see what happens as time goes by. Thank you so much :)
It's hard to dance with a devil on your backzoaster_toaster on February 24th, 2014 12:50 am (UTC)
Do I know this person on Twitter? And awwwwwwwww at this guy.
Jules: emma watson lucyjazzontherocks on February 24th, 2014 02:00 am (UTC)
You actually do ;) It's the same guy we had a discussion about Leo DiCaprio films with. He's currently living in Florida. Thanks for the comment <3
It's hard to dance with a devil on your back: avpm totally awesomezoaster_toaster on February 24th, 2014 02:22 am (UTC)
Awwwwwwwww please get together!!!!! He's cool!

And then move out to LA together so I can see you both!

Edited at 2014-02-24 02:23 am (UTC)
Jules: emily piriz iconjazzontherocks on February 24th, 2014 02:42 am (UTC)
I want to he wants to LOL That's why I spent the last 2 months trying to figure him out. Actually, he's currently sick and has been that way for 4 years so he did tell my other friend he would date me but he has to feel better first. We'd def. hang and go to concerts together with you <3 Another thing we have in common: we are suckers for intense kissing and cuddling.
It's hard to dance with a devil on your backzoaster_toaster on February 24th, 2014 02:53 am (UTC)
Well I hope he can get better and I'm glad you two connect so well. (Also, can he get me a hot friend?)
Jules: emma watson lucyjazzontherocks on February 24th, 2014 03:08 am (UTC)
Hoping for ze best 'cause I do find him incredibly handsome. Thanks. And LOL You're free to ask him that. We could have a double date!

Edited at 2014-02-24 03:09 am (UTC)